valentine's day

The Language of Flowers

When I was young I found a Hallmark card organizer at a yard sale. Inside was a list of some of the more common flowers and their meanings. While I certainly don't only choose flowers for their meaning, I have been fascinated by the Victorian practice of crafting a bouquet to have a specific meaning ever since finding that Hallmark list.

Now you probably know that a red rose is a symbol of love, but did you know that there's an entire language of flowers? I thought I'd share a few blooms that would make more unique choices for Valentine's Day this year.



Tulips. In a shade of red, a tulip symbolizes perfect love, making it a great choice for your love on Valentine's Day. Tulips are also more affordable than red roses, and bring a welcome touch of spring at this time of the year. I've never been much of a rose person, so I'd take tulips any day over roses.



Ranunculus. In any color, ranunculus symbolize captivation, or being 'dazzled'. One of my favorite flowers, ranunculus come in a huge range of colors, usually cost less than $10 per bunch, and are one of the first blooms of the spring so they're usually easy to find around this time.



 
Yellow roses. Like I said, I've never been much of a rose person, but spray roses, especially once they've opened up, can be really beautiful, and since they have a milder scent than long stemmed or wild roses, they are a good choice for someone who is sensitive to fragrance. A yellow rose, of any variety, symbolizes friendship and joy- a perfect way to show a close friend a little love- after all, Valentine's Day isn't just for couples.


Want to get a little more creative? Try crafting a bouquet to say just what you mean. This arrangement I made would be perfect for revealing to someone that you care about them, since ranunculus say 'you're captivating' and a maiden hair fern expresses secret love.

If you're interested in learning more about what flowers are saying, there are a number of websites with some of the more common flowers listed, like Teleflora's. I also discovered a beautiful book by Mandy Kirby- The Language of Flowers: A Miscellany- a wonderful resource with lovely illustrations on the subject.

Easy Valentine's Get Together

I know not everyone is into Valentine's Day, but I've always loved it (and I only had a boyfriend on Valentine's Day once ever before getting married). Give me an excuse to A)give people I love gifts, and B) host parties, and I'm all in.

For those who aren't totally on the anti-Valentine's train, I thought it would be fun to put together an easy little party that's perfect for everyone from couples, to all your single to friends, to any combination in between.


Taking my cues from the ombre theme I've been using this year, I choose some food and drinks that fit into the palette and did a minor amount of quick decorating to go along with it.




A few quick, but slightly fancy snacks, displayed on simple platters (I mostly used my vintage Milk Glass collection) make an impression, without taking up a ton of time. My choices were:

Prosciutto wrapped cantaloupe slices
Watermelon wedges
Rustic bread with herb butter (recipe/how to make heart shaped butter below)
Salami
Cheese plate with heart shaped crackers

Of course, any easy to whip up snacks/appetizers that you fancy will work.


To make the butter you'll need:

1/2 cup butter, softened to room temperature
6 large basil leaves, finely cut (preferably chiffonade aka in fine ribbons)
2 Tbsp. parmesan
2 tsp. minced garlic
Salt and pepper to taste
Heart shaped ice tray (available at Michaels in the Valentine's Day stuff)

Whisk all ingredients together until combined. Using an offset spatula, fill each compartment of the ice tray, scraping the spatula across the top until even. Place in the freezer for 15-20 minutes. Butter pats will pop out easily once chilled.



For sweets, I put out those ombre sugar cookies I shared last week, and a candy assortment in matching colors (jelly beans and valentine M&M's, which we sorted by color). For a quick (and affordable) display I placed the candies in simple glass candle holders from Michaels and added a few vintage scoops for serving.





For a festive touch at the bar, choose a signature cocktail that takes it's cues from your chosen color palette. Add a non-alcoholic option in a coordinating color- which will be appreciated by those who don't imbibe. For our get together, I picked the Cherry Blossom (a drink I created last spring- recipe below) and a pretty blood orange soda.

To make the Cherry Blossom you'll need:

Luxardo (or other maraschino liqueur)
Sparkling water
Almond extract
Homemade cherry grenadine
Cocktail cherries
Ice

The cherry grenadine is quick and easy to make:

Homemade Cherry Grenadine (adapted from a Chow recipe for traditional Grenadine)

1 c. cherry juice (100% juice, unsweetened)
1 c. sugar
1/4 tsp. freshly squeezed lemon juice
2-3 drops orange flower water

Heat cherry juice in saucepan until hot (not boiling)- small bubbles will form around the edge of the pan and steam will be rising. Remove from heat. Add sugar and stir until no longer cloudy. Add lemon juice and orange flower water. Let cool to room temperature. Transfer to jar/bottle with tight fitting lid. Grenadine will keep for 1 month if refrigerated.

Make the grenadine the day before and you'll be ready to mix up the drink. In a tumbler (or a stemless wine glass) mix:

1 oz. Luxardo
3 Tbsp. cherry grenadine
1-2 drops of almond extract

Top with sparkling water and add ice. Garnish with cocktail cherry or a lemon wedge. For a true Cherry Blossom, skip the lemon wedge and top with a float of half 'n half. (Note- don't use milk instead of half 'n half- it curdles more easily and though it won't affect the taste of the drink, it doesn't look pretty. My apologies to our party guests who had to learn this with me the hard way).

If you want to let guests mix their own drinks, add the almond extract to some of the grenadine ahead of time and place in a small bottle (I even made a silly 'love potion' tag for mine).

To add another layer of Valentine's charm to these drinks I made some heart shaped iced cubes in those silicone ice trays. At our actual party (rather than the photo shoot version), I added some chopped up cocktail cherries before freezing so the cubes would be pink.



For a few final touches, I used washi tape to fancy up some glass jars for a straw container and some candle holders. Just pick a few colors/patterns of tape and go to town with whatever pattern suits you. Once the party is over you can just remove the tape and use the jars for something else.





To finish up the festivities, head outside with some heart sparklers- a fun and memorable end to the day. (Sadly, I forgot about this part at our actual party so the mister and I lit a few by ourselves later in the weekend- sorry friends)!

A few sources:

Striped straws- mine are from Oh Hello Friend's new brick and mortar shop, but if you're not in the LA area, check with your local party goods stores or boutiques that carry cute things or craft supplies. Sur la table also carries a small selection of straws. For online purchases- there are a multitude of shops on Etsy that carry straws in a variety of colors and patterns.

Heart sparklers- again, I purchased mine at Oh Hello Friend, but they are from Tops Malibu and come in two sizes.

Heart shaped crackers- Valley Lavosh brand, which are available at Kroger grocery stores and probably others as well- try calling to see if your local store carries them.







Round 'Em Up: DIY Valentines

In what is now an annual tradition (this post last year was wildly popular), I thought I'd share my favorite Valentine's Day DIY's.


Love these arrows and quiver from Sugar and Cloth! The way to my heart is definitely with arrows. Ashley even incorporated date night ideas into the craft, so they're more than just a valentine.


This printable astronaut valentine from Dandee Designs is great for kids, kids at heart, or if you happen to know an astronaut. (Ha ha).


With this big blizzard making it's way over the east coast, these handwarmers from Armommy would be a welcome valentine. Armommy even has the fabric you see for sale, or you can use your own.


For some old school charm (at least for those of us born pre text messages and email), these junior high love notes from Assemble are perfect! Plus, you probably already have notebook paper and pen.


An easy, and useful valentine, these rulers from Thompson and Spring would be perfect to send off to school with the kids since they'll meet even the strictest food/allergy policies.


When I first saw these honey stick valentines from Smile and Wave, I actually said "genius" out loud. Brilliant and cute. That Rachel is so clever!


A project that might take a bit more skill, but will be useful long past Valentine's Day, these heart coin purses from Fabric Paper Glue are made of leather, but you could substitue a heavy vinyl if leather's not your thing.


Lastly, my very favorite of the bunch- this awesome gilded dinosaur valentine from Lovely Indeed! You may not know this, but my husband and I love dinosaurs, and we even have a collection of dino toys that we pick up whenever we win tickets from skee ball. This clever, but easy dinosaur would definitely be a hit in our house. This one would even work for the Valentine's haters in your life (since he's eating the cute little hearts), right?

What are you making for Valentine's Day this year? I've been working on a few string art projects which I'll be sharing on Monday. Tonight we're having a little V-Day get together with some friends so I'm headed off to get all the last minute details taken care of.

Have an awesome weekend!






history lesson: Valentine's Day

i've heard (okay, so maybe seen on facebook is more accurate) a number of people in the last few weeks talking about how Valentine's Day is just a 'holiday invented by the greeting card, candy, and floral companies'. of course, i see where this kind of sentiment is coming from- it has become awfully commercialized and seems to have been reduced to a cheesy jewelry ad- but as someone who (as i mentioned yesterday) has always enjoyed Valentine's Day, i set out to find out what the history of the holiday is and see if it could be redeemed from corporate America.

this guy- he's not corporate America!
'love rocks' valentines and photo from Bunny Cakes


there are a number of legends, from very different cultures, that contributed to the creation of Valentine's Day...

a pagan festival

until the 5th century, the Roman festival Lupercalia- a fertility festival- was celebrated in mid February. this festival was believed to have included animal sacrifice, after which the hides would be cut into strips and priests would go about gently slapping woman and crops with these strips. being touched by this hide was believed to make women more fertile in the coming year. during the festival, according to legend, all the single women would place their names in an urn and the bachelors would later draw names and pair up for the year with the woman whose name they drew. it was said that many marriages resulted from these pairings. somewhere around the end of the 5th century February 14th was declared Saint Valentine's Day by Pope Gelasius and Lupercalia was outlawed.


i had a very hard time finding a family friendly image for Lupercalia, so instead i went with this awesome vintage wolf tee. Lupercalia was named as such in honor of the wolf, or canis lupus, who nursed the founders of Rome.
photo and tee from Shop Glovebox



a saint...or three

the Catholic church recognizes three saints named Valentine (or Valentinus), all of whom were martyred. there are several legends surrounding these saints and from what i could find, it's not certain which is the saint the day officially honors. one Saint Valentine was purported to be a priest in 3rd century Rome when Emperor Claudius II outlawed marriage for young men, believing that single men made better soldiers. Valentine saw the injustice of this decree and defied the emperor by continuing to perform marriages in secret. When his actions were discovered, Claudius ordered Valentine be put to death.

other legends around Saint Valentine suggest he was imprisoned and killed for helping Christians escape Roman prisions, where beatings and torture were common. some even say that Valentine actually sent the first 'valentine' from prison- after falling in love with his jailor's daughter, who visited him in prison. before he died, it is said he sent her a note signed 'from your Valentine'.

regardless of who Saint Valentine actually was, the stories all seem to feature him as a heroic, sympathetic, and romantic figure, and by the middle ages he became one of the most popular saints in both England and France.

mosaic of Saint Valentine from Church of the Dormition in Jerusalem.
photo from Catholic News Service


the birds and the bees

during the middle ages, in England and France at least, the belief that February 14th was the beginning of bird mating season, contributed to Valentine's Day being associated with romance. Chaucer may have actually had a hand in establishing the day as a day of romance with his poem 'The Parliament of the Fowls'.

Geoffrey Chaucer.
public domain image.


will you be mine

the oldest existing valentine known today was a poem by Charles, Duke of Orleans, written in 1415. the poem was written to his wife while he was imprisoned in the Tower of London after being captured at the Battle of Agincourt.

by the middle of the 18th century, it was common for people to exchange notes and small tokens of affection and by 1900, with the advent of better printing technology and affordable postage, valentines were often printed cards. today it is estimated that 1 billion valentines are sent in the U.S. each year.

1861 Valentine's Day image from Harper's Weekly.
public domain image.

1920's valentine and photo from the Vintage Valentine Museum.

1930's valentine.
photo from the Vintage Valentine Museum

1950's valentine.
photo from the Vintage Valentine Museum

1960's valentine.
photo from the Vintage Valentine Museum. 
1980's 'Get Along Gang' valentines (I totally had these guys!).
photo from Frugal Fairy Vintage

while Valentine's Day may have gone off track, it does appear to be more than just a conspiracy by the greeting card companies! so- have i changed your mind about Valentine's Day? do you love it? hate it? i'd love (no pun intended) to hear your thoughts!

(online sources for today's history lesson: History,  Catholic News Service, National Geographic News).




valentine crafty round up

those who know me know there are two things i love (well, hundreds of things really, but these are two of them): giving presents and handmade crafty-ness.

photo and tote bag from Not Made in China.

for that reason, i've always loved valentine's day (even for the many, many years i was a single gal). i look at it as just one more excuse to make and give the people i care about crafty presents! i know others find it cheesy, or think it's some kind of greeting card company holiday (i'll be sharing about the history of valentine's day tomorrow), but i enjoy it.

photo and 'Wheelie' valentine from Thirty Handmade Days.

this year though, i haven't had much energy and other than making a gift for my mister (which i am dying to share with you, but it'll have to wait until wednesday), i haven't done anything for valentine's day. thanks to the magic of the internet however, i can live vicariously through all the crafty goodness everyone else is sharing with the world, and you can too!

photo and 'Crafty Like a Fox' pattern by Penelope Waits.

so here's a round up of my favorite valentine's projects- most of which can (and should) be made with vintage materials...



cupid's arrow sweater embellishment from Elegant Musings- perfect for a vintage cardigan with a hole or other imperfection that needs covering up!



a new friend from Alt and fellow Seattleite, Brianne, has a sweet and simple vintage scrap bookmark how-to on her site- The Ravenna Girls.



another Seattleite pal, Megan from Not Martha posted a great tutorial for valentine's day surprise crackers! crackers have been around since 1847 and though generally used at Christmas, they can make any day or event special! find out more about the history at Absolutely Crackers).



The Lettered Cottage has a great cupcake stand DIY, using vintage plates and other fun things. this would be so cute at a valentine's party!


one of my favorite design sites, Design Sponge, had so many cute valentine's projects last year! my two favorites:


repurposed packaging in old cigar boxes from the BBB Craft Sisters. so many ways to use this idea!

and the


vintage typewriter tin valentine from Ashley. i even have a typewriter tin sitting on a shelf right now, i might have to whip one of these up today!



i dug back all the way to 2010 for this cute vintage spool valentine idea from Papernstitch. 




one of my recent favorites- these arrow valentines from Two Shades of Pink. (i'll admit it, i'm a bit obsessed with arrows)! these are so easy and you could incorporate so many vintage materials- fabric, paper, yarn, measuring tapes, tags, and more!



speaking of my arrow obsession, another one of my new pals from Alt, Muffin, has an entire week of free valentine's downloads on her site- Sweet Muffin Suite, and i love this printable arrow valentine! the mister and i were planning to make these on saturday, but cleaning and chores got in the way. sad. i think these would be so cute with vintage pencils inside!




last year i had a blast making flavored butters, inspired by Maize Hutton's 'Spread the Love' post. this year she even has a printable PDF so you can make an easy and cute label! another project with so many ways to use some vintage- fabric for the covers, paper for the labels, even vintage jars to make the butter in! 




today i stumbled upon these beautiful photos on Simply Bloom Photography and thought- cootie catchers (you know, those origami fortune teller things) would be such a fun valentine! did you make these when you were a kid? i remember making them with my friends from daycare (these, and playing MASH were extremely popular daycare activities)! Ruffled has a PDF template with instructions on how to make them.


what are you making for valentine's day? i'd love it if you'd share a link or send me a photo!

p.s. i'm experimenting with photo size today. if you love or hate the extra big photos, leave me a comment to let me know!